Re-activate after 4 years...

Haha, finally activate my account since alr dormant..haha!! Nice 2 meet u rox!

The Secret To Attracting And Keeping

The main PROBLEM here, and the thing that stood in your way, is that men aren't easy to understand. And when you find a good man, he doesn't come with an "instruction manual".

Just because your girlfriends told you it wasn't your fault, or that he was just "a jerk", doesn't mean that they understood the problem (or that they understand men at all, for that matter).

Most women don't "get" men. Your friends who try to comfort and encourage you have good intentions. They're just trying to make you feel better.


But they're also accidentally making the situation WORSE.

They're trying to blame the situation on HIM, instead of trying to help YOU understand how to KEEP a great guy around.

This situation is MOST dangerous when you meet a really GREAT GUY, but you don't know how to catch him or keep him. Let's face it, great guys are hard to find... and when you do find one, you can't afford to lose him because you made a dumb mistake.

You can't afford to throw away a good six months, a year... or even LONGER... and risk losing what could be a valuable relationship... just because you didn't know how to handle a particular situation.

Well, there is some good news here... I personally believe that there IS something you can do about it.

You CAN learn how to understand men and get them to be open up and understand you. You can learn how to CATCH that great guy, and how to KEEP him.

And how do I know this?

Because I AM a guy. And I've been in all the situations I just mentioned to you... from the OTHER side.

I've seen it from a man's perspective. I've been in those difficult "places" in dating, relationships, and love.

After years and years of experiencing these types of situations and hearing about them from my female friends, I decided to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT...

I spent well over a year carefully documenting and writing about my experiences. I spent much of that time researching, interviewing women, and working out all the ways a woman can get what she wants out of a relationship without scaring off the man she loves... and without letting any of those confusing "guy issues" get in the way.

Here's what I discovered:

Continue next week,hehe.....suspend le!

Why A Man Gets 'Scared Away' When You Try To Get Him To Commit For The Long-Term-And What To Do About It..."

An Open Letter To A Woman Who Wants To ATTRACT And KEEP Mr. Right...

Dear Friend,
I'd like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them...
Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt?
You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him?
In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong "chemistry" that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with you.
Another one...
Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen?
Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place... but you did it anyway.
And finally:
Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I'm talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after?
You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you.
I'm guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like:
"He's just a jerk, forget about him".
Or they said: "He doesn't see the mistake he's making or what he'll be missing". But he never seemed to see these mistakes... or even miss you.
And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it.
In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I'll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk).
In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place... and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently...
Unfortunately, the bad news is that you're probably right.
Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation.
You COULD have done something about it... if only you had known WHAT to do...

Lyrics of Underneath Your Clothes (Shakira)

You're a song written by the hands of God
Don't get me wrongcause this might sound to you a bit odd
But you own that placewhere all my thoughts go ridin'
Right under your clothes is where I findthem
UNDERNEATH YOUR CLOTHES there's a man a story
There's a man Ichose there's my territory
and all the things Ideserve
For bein' such a good girl honey
Cause of you I thought of the smart ways to ride
Cause ofyouI'm running out of reasons to cry
When your friends are gone
And when the party's over
It still won't be long to each other
UNDERNEATH YOUR CLOTHES there's a man a story
There's a man I chosethere's my territory
andall the things Ideserve
For bein' such a good girl honey
UNDERNEATH YOUR CLOTHES there's a man a story
There's a man I chosethere's my territory
and all the things Ideserve
For bein' such a good girl
For bein' such a hey hey hey hey
I want to be your woman all I talk aboutis
Movin' talkin' walkin' breathin'
You know it too and babe it's so funny
You almost don't believe it
As ev'ry voice is risin' to the feelin'
We'll be hangin' by the ceilin'
All the way she finds it her manner
Muscles hard as steel
UNDERNEATH YOUR CLOTHES there's a man a story
There's a man Ichose there's my territory
andall the things I deserve
For bein' such a good girl honey
UNDERNEATH YOUR CLOTHES woh
There's a man I chosethere's my territory
and all the things I deserve
For bein' such a good girl
For bein' such a good girl ah

My target....

In next year i will be 21, so i decided i got many things to do to make my 21 meaningful.

1. I'm going to get my driving license soon.
2. Still decide whether want to take my own personal album.
3. I must thrive hard to earn more money $$$$$
4. Maybe my last target is to buy a car....i dont care its new or second handed (kelisa/kancil/charade) so easy for me travel to my working place.
5. Collect $$$ from whom want to tumpang everyday.....hehe*

In the end, i'm still around....

Hi, im so lazy to get connected nowadays. But im so happy this week coz i took 2days annual leave and will going to kl for attending a course. I can meet my frens there. Oppspss.......tat alls 4 today, something crops up!

I'm back....

Suddenly feel like blogging. So free today, got nothing to do. Now im downloading my hp picture to pc. Opening my full critical mail box. I also cant remember when did i last open it. Damn lots of mail to reply ohhhhHH....

Just feel like life is so strange. Sometimes , wat r we waiting for? No on can predict. Everyday, working,working still working! Am i tired of living?

A very sad and beautiful story

Here's something for you guys...a very sad but beautiful story....


A certain rich businessman had a beautiful daughter, who fell in love with a guy who was a cleaner. When the girl's father came to know about their love, he did not like it at all, and so began to protest about it.

Now it happened that the two lovers decided to leave their homes for a happy future. The girl's father started searching everywhere for the them but in vain.

At last, he accepted their love and asked them to come back home in a local newspaper. Her father said "If you both come back I will allow Â
you to marry the guy you love, I accept that you loved each other truly".

So in this way, their love won and they returned homes.


The couple went to town to shop for a wedding dress for the bride. The guy was wearing a white shirt that day. Then as he was crossing the road to the other side

to get some drinks for his fiancee, a car hit him and he died on the spot. The girl lost her senses. It was only after some time that she recovered from her shock. The funeral and cementation was held on the very next day because he had died horribly.


Two nights later, the girl's mother had a dream in which she saw an old lady. The old lady told her mother to wash the blood stains of the guy from her

daughter's dress as soon as possible. But her mother ignored the dream.

The next night her father had the same dream, he, too, ignored it. Then when the girl had the dream the following night, she woke up in fear and told

her mother about the dream. Her mother adviced her to wash the clothes which have blood stains immediately.


She did as she was told, but to no avail. The next night she again had the same dream. She washed again... but some still remained.


And on the 3rd night, she had the exact same dream and this time the old lady gave her a last warning to wash the blood stain away, or else something terribleÂ
will happen. This time the girl tried her best to wash the stains.

She used all her might to scrub...and the dress nearly tore, but patches of stubborn stains still remained!

By late evening the same day, tired and all alone at home, the girl heard a knock on the door. When she opened the door, she saw the same old lady in
her dream standing at her door. She got very scared and fainted.


The old lady woke her up and gave her a blue object. Still in shock, the girl asked, "What is this..? "


The old lady replied...
"Try Dynamo Liquid Soap... just a dab and it will remove all stubborn stains!!!"






Heehee...I know how you all are feeling now...I have been through this too mah. But don't look at me like that leh...

girls tears..... esp for guys

A girl wont cry easily,
except in front of the person who she love the most,
she becomes weak.

A girl wont cry easily,
only when she love you the most,
she put down her ego.

If a girl cries bcoz of you,
please hold her hands firmly,
she's the one who would stay with you for the rest of your life.

If a girl cries bcoz of you,
please don`t give her up,
maybe bcoz of your decision,
you ruin her life.

When she cries right infront of you,
When she cries bcoz of you,
Look into her eyes,
Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she's feeling?
Think.
Which other girl have cried with pure sincerity,
In front of you, And bcoz of you?

She cries not because she is weak,
She cries not bcoz she wants sympathy or pity,
She cries,
Because crying silently is no longer possible,
the pain, hurt, n agony have become too big a burden to be kept inside.

If a girl cries her heart out to you,
And all because of you,
Its time to look back on wat u have done,
Only you will know the answer to it.

Do consider it, Coz one day,
It may be too late for regrets,
It may be too late to say "I'm sorry".

To my friends...

Don`t do this to a girl,You may regret it for the rest of your life.
Maybe in your life,She's the only one that love YOU the most.
Remember this lesson..

No one falls in Love by CHOICE, it is by CHANCE
No one stays in Love by CHANCE, it is by WORK
And no one falls out of Love by CHANCE, it is by

CHOICE...

Why most females are single???!!

1. The nice men are ugly.

2. The handsome men are not nice.

3. The handsome and nice men are gay.

4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual
men are married.

5. The men who are not so handsome, but
are nice
men, have no money.

6. The men who are not so handsome, but
are nice
men with money think we are only after their
money.

7. The handsome men without money are
after our
money.

8. The handsome men, who are not so nice
and
somewhat heterosexual, don't think we are
beautiful enough.

9. The men who think we are beautiful, that
are
heterosexual, somewhat nice and have
money,
are cowards.

10. The men who are somewhat handsome,
somewhat nice and have some money and
thank
God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER
MAKE
THE FIRST MOVE!!!!

11. The men who never make the first
move, automatically lose interest in us when
we
take the initiative.

NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS
MEN?

"Men are like a fine wine.
They all start out like grapes, and
it's our job to stomp on them and keep
them in the dark until they mature into
something
you'd like to have dinner with."

Dangerous!!!

Beware of Mirrors in Hotels!
...Because you never know!

How to > determine if a mirror are 2 way or not (Not a Joke!) Not to scare you,but to make you aware. A policewoman who travels all over the US and givesseminars and techniques for businesswomen passed this on.

> > HOW TO DETECT A 2-WAY MIRROR :> > When we visit toilets, bathrooms, hotel rooms, changing rooms, etc.

> How many of you know for sure that the seemingly ordinary mirrorhanging on the wall is a real mirror, or actually a 2-way mirror (i.e., theycan see you, but you can't see them).

> > There have been many cases of people installing 2-way mirrors in

> female changing rooms. It is very difficult to positively identify thesurface by just looking at it.

> > So, how do we determine with any amount of certainty w hat type of > mirror we are looking at? Just conduct this simple test:

> > Place the tip of your fingernail ! against the reflective surface and > if there is a GAP between your fingernail and the image of the nail,then it is a GENUINE mirror. However, if your fingernail DIRECTLYTOUCHES> the image of your nail,then BEWARE, FOR IT IS A 2-WAY MIRROR! > > So remember, every time you see a mirror, do the "fingernail test." It> doesn't cost you anything. It is simple to do, and it might save youfrom getting "visually raped"! This is a really good thing to do. The reasonthere is a gap on a real mirror, is because the silver is on the back of themirror UNDER the glass. As a two-way mirror, the silver is on the surface.Keep it in mind!

> > Ladies: Share this with your girl friends. Men: Share this with your > wives, daughters and/or girlfriend or friends.

What Is Life???huh?

Every morning wake up,
thinking not going to work!

But we have no choice,
but have to do it,
so we brush our teeth,

and go to shit!

Quickly eat breakfast.

Prepare to go to work.

At work, we work for the
whole day and seeing
someone we don't like!

Our closest friend is PC,

and with the terrible PC
(Programming @#$%&#@!)
we work until feel like dying.

After working, we still have
to finish tones of work!

Everyday, we always check
at the calendar and looking
forward Saturday and
Public holidays!

........THAT'S OUR LIFE!